I would like to make a couple of points.
If pulsing damages float valves then every Mini with an SU fuel pump was designed wrong. Both mechanical and electrical SU fuel pumps create pulses. This does not cause problems. A pressure regulator may dampen the pulses but it is not going to eliminate them.
The rating of "1.5-4 PSI " is a possible range of pressure. Facet is saying that due to manufacturing tolerances of the machined parts and the rate of the spring in the pump, the output pressure could be anywhere from 1.5 PSI to 4 PSI. The actual value will vary from pump to pump. It is easily checked by priming the pump with fuel, then connecting a pressure gauge to the discharge side of the pump and powering it up. That is a static pressure. A more accurate reading will be found by putting a gauge in a T fitting installed inline with the fuel hose.
Regulators have their place but you have to be aware of a few things. To be effective, the regulator needs to be supplied by a certain amount of pressure HIGHER than what you want coming out. (Basically what Dusky was saying about regulators are for high pressure pumps). It would not be unusual for the regulator to need the supply pressure to be 20% higher than your desired output pressure. As a made-up example, let's say you wanted a constant 10 PSI at the carburetor and you want to fit a regulator. You would need a pump capable of supplying 12 PSI or more for the regulator to work as designed. Therefore, if you have bought a 1.5-4 PSI pump and your carb wants 3.5 PSI, measure the pressure your pump develops to see if the regulator is needed at all. For the regulator to work properly you would need a pump capable of supplying about 4.5 PSI in most cases. However, I anticipate you will find the Facet pump is going to deliver around 3 PSI which will make the regulator totally unnecessary.
I see a lot of people on U.K. boards like putting pumps in the boot. That's fine but mount it as low as possible. You want the pump fed by gravity, you don't want the pump to have to use suction to lift the fuel (again... as Dusky said). When BMC designed the Mini, those models that used electric pumps had them located on the rear subframe below the LH fuel tank.
Yes, pumping fuel to the front of the car will create a pressure drop. How much will depend on the size of your fuel lines and the number and type of filters you install in the line. However, don't expect your Mini will suddenly need huge fuel lines and a high pressure pump just because you are fitting a Webber. Yes, it might use more fuel at a faster rate but short of full out racing you are unlikely to tax a stock pump. What your system really requires is sufficient fuel flow to keep the float bowls full and pressure suitable enough to maintain that flow without overpowering the float valves.