OK... so you have tried different followers in that hole and you have tried sandpaper on the entrance of the hole and there is no fit?
I assume these are new cam followers and a new cam. You are not supposed to mix new and old parts and you are not supposed to change the location of a cam follower (if you are using old parts, the cam follower for intake 3 needs to be put back in the same lifter hole to ride on the same cam lobe and so on).
Hopefully you have not installed the cam yet as any sanding debris is going to need to be carefully cleaned away.
Look carefully for damage to the entrance of the lifter hole. New lifters sometimes have an etched, slightly rough surface. You may find that chucking the new lifter in a lathe and polishing its outside diameter with a bit of ScotchBrite will remove enough of the rough outside diameter that it will fit the hole in the block. Avoid any heavy sanding that will significantly change the lifter diameter. Also make sure that there are no burrs on the front of the new cam follower that are catching on the hole entrance.