First, why are you buying a new pump? The stock pumps can easily keep up with the demands of all but full race engines.
If you really need a new fuel pump, consider buying the pump shown in the first link. I do not use the filters that come with the pumps. I place a coarse, transparent, inline filter before the pump to protect the pump's valves and I place a fine, translucent, disposable filter right before the carbs to catch anything that gets through the pump.
If you buy the pump in the first link, you should not need the regulator. The listing says that the MED pumps are selected to be compatible with SUs. If you bought the kit in the second link, the flat, round, pancake regulator that is supplied has a reputation for poor performance and failure. There are better regulators available.
I am not trying to throw any stones at MED but you can probably buy a comparable Facet pump from any number of suppliers for less. The key part is buying a low pressure model. SUs prefer about 2.5 PSI and you really don't want to supply them more than 3.5 PSI unless you add a pressure regulator.
Relays and safety interlocks are optional but generally a good idea. The relay will protect the switch contacts in the car's "regular" wiring. Interlocks such as inertia switches will protect you in the event of an accident.