Yeah, those good-ish gaskets are actually known as Mono-torque. They are no longer made.
As GW said ^^^ For a repair / replacement, I wouldn't be using a Copper Gasket, they are great gaskets but everything really needs to be mickey mouse or they will leak.
Looking at what I could find on the Mini Spares Website, I can't see they have a composite gasket, but I'm sure they are about, that would be the one to go for.
Gr4h4m - yeah, a Cometic is a very good gasket (if the decks are spot on) but a bit hard to justify for this job!
Doug, it sounds like the gasket on your friend's car has failed nearer a push rod hole, but the oil is working it's way around to the front / side of the head.
Just as a side note, IMO, the studing arrangement on these engines is back to front! The side of the deck that has the least surface area has the most fasteners and the shortest, and the side (push rod side) that has the huge expanse to seal has the least number and the longest studs! Yeah, yeah, everything's a compromise,,,,,,,,,,, but this is just dumb,,,,,,,,