This won’t help you get the flywheel off, but might save pain later........ the end of the main puller bolt looks a bit marred - is there something to protect the end of the crank?
When you replace those washers with thicker ones, use the thin ones on the wok bolts you have wound back in - 3 or 4 evenly spaced around the circle. These will catch the flywheel when it eventually springs off.
Hi. yes, there is an insert that protects the crank that camw with the kit. i guess its because of the force i applied.










