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[sally the mini]

glad this came up i am in some trouble, my mate found this girl for me we got along really well adn she didnt stop talking to me 24/7 and it kinda freaked me out her mate found out and told her now we aint talking. problem is i really really like her and her mate aint that bad either.

what do i do

do you mean her friend told her that you were freaked by her being over keen?

which girl would you say you prefer?

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years

[mini_gurl84]

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years


true, they do say somthing about not dating people you work with, but im sure there are people who do it happily all the same.
do you know for a fact that your not talking e.g. shes txt you to sling your hook or somthing or has she just not been in contact?

[Burnard]

@Burnard:

3 Upsides to NOT being single (just for kicks)

1. Borrow her car to pick up parts
2. Borrow her car the next day to get to work because you haven't finished fixing your mini yet
3. Borrow her car in the winter, because hey, I'm not driving my dear mini in the snow & salt!



(*edit: then listen to her tell me about how reliable her honda is...)

Online ordering...
I would cycle to work, or get a lift of a mate.
Ill buy another car.

(honda's are reliable, but they burn more oil than a mini !)

[sally the mini]

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years


true, they do say somthing about not dating people you work with, but im sure there are people who do it happily all the same.
do you know for a fact that your not talking e.g. shes txt you to sling your hook or somthing or has she just not been in contact?

she just aint talkin to me which is nice cus every 10 mins it wa like "what you doing" i say "smae thing as before" lol
and then my mate goes u would be a great pair cus i am quiet, dunno where he got that from. also when i see her she is really shy she dont talk to me but then when we go home she is texting me all the time.
what to do?

[Shifty]

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years


true, they do say somthing about not dating people you work with, but im sure there are people who do it happily all the same.
do you know for a fact that your not talking e.g. shes txt you to sling your hook or somthing or has she just not been in contact?

I'd agree with the not dating people you work with!!!!


(you end up marrying them!!!)


Me an Mrs Shifty worked together for 8 years before we got together.



Been married for 3 years now, god bless her

[sally the mini]

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years


true, they do say somthing about not dating people you work with, but im sure there are people who do it happily all the same.
do you know for a fact that your not talking e.g. shes txt you to sling your hook or somthing or has she just not been in contact?

I'd agree with the not dating people you work with!!!!


(you end up marrying them!!!)


Me an Mrs Shifty worked together for 8 years before we got together.



Been married for 3 years now, god bless her

congrats
dont mind marrying her she likes mini's and my type of humor

[Shifty]

it was her friend

and i work with her mate and she is sooo nice well they both are and i think if i ask her mate out it might be embarissing cus we have worked together for 3years


true, they do say somthing about not dating people you work with, but im sure there are people who do it happily all the same.
do you know for a fact that your not talking e.g. shes txt you to sling your hook or somthing or has she just not been in contact?

I'd agree with the not dating people you work with!!!!


(you end up marrying them!!!)


Me an Mrs Shifty worked together for 8 years before we got together.



Been married for 3 years now, god bless her

congrats
dont mind marrying her she likes mini's and my type of humor

I hope you don't mean Mrs Shifty because shes's taken!!????

(and she does love minis!!)


Cheers!!

[mini_gurl84]

she just aint talkin to me which is nice cus every 10 mins it wa like "what you doing" i say "smae thing as before" lol
and then my mate goes u would be a great pair cus i am quiet, dunno where he got that from. also when i see her she is really shy she dont talk to me but then when we go home she is texting me all the time.
what to do?

hmmm... sounds very shy in person like you said but feels like most people do that they are more likely to be more open feel more confident when talking through a phone/ computer.
probably really likes you but you make her nervous, and she feels she has to compensate for lack of talking to you in person by bombarding you through your phone as she doesnt have to face you. prob doesnt help that the friend is getting involved or that you have a soft spot for her too. maybe try and get the girl alone or arrange to meet for a chat, just you too. maybe apologise? even if its just for her benefit? let me know if this sounds wrong..

Edited by mini_gurl84, 27 May 2009 - 09:10 PM.

[sally the mini]

she just aint talkin to me which is nice cus every 10 mins it wa like "what you doing" i say "smae thing as before" lol
and then my mate goes u would be a great pair cus i am quiet, dunno where he got that from. also when i see her she is really shy she dont talk to me but then when we go home she is texting me all the time.
what to do?

hmmm... sounds very shy in person like you said but feels like most people do that they are more likely to be more open feel more confident when talking through a phone/ computer.
probably really likes you but you make her nervous, and she feels she has to compensate for lack of talking to you in person by bombarding you through your phone as she doesnt have to face you. prob doesnt help that the friend is getting involved or that you have a soft spot for her too. maybe try and get the girl alone or arrange to meet for a chat, just you too. maybe apologise? even if its just for her benefit? let me know if this sounds wrong..

i might try that thanks i just didnt no what to do

[mini_gurl84]

no probs! good luck to you too...

[998 mini 25]

So to sum up we have found that,
Women are still confusing but can only be understood by other women

Blokes are confusing as well but usually has a simple solution.

And most problems can be solved through talking.

And minigurl is the official agony aunt. A very helpfull one at that.

Cheers.

[mini_gurl84]

happy to help

[Lukie-J]

living with them gets worse especially this old chestnut

"YOU LOVE YOUR MINI MORE THAN ME"

My new girlfriend has already said she knows the car is higher on my list of priorities.
Ideal!

[rosco454]

Before we got married,in the heat of an argument following just about a solid weeks work on my old car,my then girlfriend told me it was her or the car,one had to go.

Called her bluff and told her there was a big bag under the bed......she sulked for ages

[Burnard]

would be funny if the big bag was full of mini bits...