Anything that doesn't repair it to original spec, or improve the whole installation, could be considered a bodge. In this case the side plate now has one fixing that will develop considerably less clamping force at the same torque than the others, due to the screw being thicker and so stronger and so less able to stretch at the same torque. These side plates are a stressed component, they set the diff preload and if they aren't evenly clamped and accurately loaded they very frequently deform. This is a very common source of oil leaks that people commonly mistakenly attribute to the output shaft bushes. The same would apply if you were to fit one metric screw of a different size and material as the rest. There would be no simple way to calculate how much to torque this one fastener to match the clamping load of the rest, and since cars don't have exhaustive individual technical notation and histories llike aircraft do, there would be no way to easily and reliably record the change. So any future work on the same area would become more problematic. We have all found things that previous owners have done to our cars that we have cursed them for, and this falls right into that category. Can you imagine being under the car as the next owner, rebuilding this side plate, not knowing that one screw is different? That is a bodge. It may be considered an improvement to replace all of the screws with larger ones, but there would still be no way to be certain the diff was being preloaded to the correct level because the screws would be different.
All this is great but dosent solve the problem. I was asking if it would work and have found from cooperman it should. And in my eyes its better than not having a bolt at all, like it has done fore the past year and a half. The diff seems fine also and if the person in the future comes to strip it down, which would probbly be me. They would be inteligant enought to put the bolts in an order so they go back in the same place they came from.
my car is no concourse nor is it a droping to bits wreck but id rather fix it by any means than none at all. Yes it is also leaking oil slightly but i like to keep an eye on my oil and its not as problem. The engine probly wont be in the car when im done with it or will need replacing.
I also know how it feels to be fixing somes bodge that hasnt worked but thats a differant matter and explains my reason for asking if it would work as then it wouldent be a problem.
All i wanted was to know that it would work not wether you think its in apropriate However thank you for sheareing your advice and knolage.