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[rozzer!]

its been 4 years today to the day that i lost my dad. why do the good ones go?

[Bungle]

i have lost some young friends in the last few years

[The Matt]

Yup, it's really not fair.

Sorry to hear about your loss too.

[CooperTrooper]

It is what it is my friend, im sure your dad lives on through you, i know when i see my Dad i get more like him every day.

[Juju]

Snot fair is it?
Sorry.
It always seems to be the good ones that go.
Or mebbe we just don't miss the rotters?

[rozzer!]

Snot fair is it?
Sorry.
It always seems to be the good ones that go.
Or mebbe we just don't miss the rotters?

its not that we dont miss the rotters, its that the rotters seem to live to a ripe old age to pee us off.

[imabitnaughtyxx]

its been 4 years today to the day that i lost my dad. why do the good ones go?

Because theres plenty of room in heaven for all the good ones, hell has a waiting list,

[rozzer!]

its been 4 years today to the day that i lost my dad. why do the good ones go?

Because theres plenty of room in heaven for all the good ones, hell has a waiting list,

i think the doors are closed almost permanently to hell.

[imabitnaughtyxx]

id have to agree, i know of a few individuals that i believe to be in purgatory living in my very street, lol.

[minimarco]

well, at least he is remembered =)
i don't even remember mine, i just know my love for music and cartoon came from him.
oh well, o-bla-di-bla-da, brotha

[*Raz*]

Sorry to hear that.
Tis always the good ones
Twas 4 years ago last month that both my grandparents died, 4 years on and it still hurts so much

Edited by *Raz*, 27 November 2007 - 09:27 AM.

[Matt]

hmm i know how you feel..

i had two friends die in the last couple of years... one by motorbike and one in a car.
both of them were sensible and begining to grow up into lovely blokes as well.
Both would do anything to help someone out.....

Real shame..

[THE ANORAK]

well i was hoping to post this anonymously but the forum wont let me so....

it's about ten years since i lost my dad. he died just as we found a common interest in minis after working on my first ever mini together.

I've never heard anyone say a bad word about him, he very rarely spoke but when he did it was something so hilariously funny that although people never really got to know him well, they had to like him. he could turn his hand to just about anything, never smoked, never swore and hardly touched alcohol.

i have a lot of personality traits and mannerisms that are straight from him and quite by chance i even have the same job as him.

his only fault in my opinion was that he was not naturally affectionate.

i miss the relationship that we could have now.

so all my good points come from him, and all my bad points come from my mother (passed on from her father). she has the ability to be self centred, racist, two faced etc. etc. etc.

i tolerate my mother for the sake of my kids.

i shouldn't say this (hence the wish to be anonymous), but i think i lost the wrong parent

yes, its not fair and it is the wrong people who get taken way

Edited by THE ANORAK, 27 November 2007 - 07:18 PM.

[black jack1275]

My mum died suddenly in her sleep about 9 weeks ago of a massive heart attack,
She was only 69.
We never thought it would have been mum who went first, as dad had spent 6 months last year in hospital getting over MRSA and was only just getting back on his feet.
She was the hub of the family and every one went to see her for advice.
It hurts like hell at the moment thinking about her but she in a better place and one day I will see her again.

[rozzer!]

My mum died suddenly in her sleep about 9 weeks ago of a massive heart attack,
She was only 69.
We never thought it would have been mum who went first, as dad had spent 6 months last year in hospital getting over MRSA and was only just getting back on his feet.
She was the hub of the family and every one went to see her for advice.
It hurts like hell at the moment thinking about her but she in a better place and one day I will see her again.

thats C**p dude. all i know from talking to my sisters today is that after a time the pain does go away and when it does you can get on with life again.