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[mini-geek]

am C**p at relationships but if she is single give it a go but be warned of falling out over it it will happen if you holed any grudge about it

i recently found someone who i liked think she likes me too but not going to risk it incase it all goes wrong some times its better to ignore your feeling just so you can be friends and not get hurt

i hate the way things can go wrong and peole get hurt and fall out

some times life seems so complicated dousnt it!

[RetroRacer21]

I sealed the back of the evelope with wax, and stamped it...

best of luck... i hope you get what you want this crimbo!

It looked bad, when it pealed off, so put a ribbon round it.
anyway. Yes. I Hope so, going away tomorrow to bury with family, for christmas.

so maybe I get a txt message when Im there...

[RetroRacer21]

am C**p at relationships but if she is single give it a go but be warned of falling out over it it will happen if you holed any grudge about it

i recently found someone who i liked think she likes me too but not going to risk it incase it all goes wrong some times its better to ignore your feeling just so you can be friends and not get hurt

i hate the way things can go wrong and peole get hurt and fall out

some times life seems so complicated dousnt it!

Yea I know what you mean.
Trust me... it was a very hard thing to do, And thats why I left it in my car. didnt know...

I made that mistake though before with a girl.
Best friends for 2 years at college, never told her how I felt, till it was too late.

told her by txt like a year later, and she felt the same, but moved away to norwich.

If You dont let her know, if its a day, or years later.... I find its best to open up once in awhile.
otherwise you go through life regretting the things you should have done.

I can see how if we fall out it will be bad.
But im a nice person not to fall out with people.

[mini-geek]

well only time will tell you never know you may gat a text

but dont let her keep you on hold she may say am not looking for a relationship right now if that the case say your still friends and dont want to change that but keep locking you might find someone else if you do go for it


all advice given is advice and not a guild no responsabilty will be taken for it going tits up

[Nickh_16]

aww this sounds like love actually lol

'And at christmas you tell the truth'

Good on ya man, takes some decision making to do something like that i know.

Good Luck!!

[yorkshirechris]

How did she react when you gave her the envelope?

Good on ya, most of us wouldn't have the balls to do it, lol, so if it backfires at least you can say you tried

Better to have tried and failed than not tried at all....

[RetroRacer21]

How did she react when you gave her the envelope?

Good on ya, most of us wouldn't have the balls to do it, lol, so if it backfires at least you can say you tried

Better to have tried and failed than not tried at all....

Pretty happy actually.
she went awww...

Then Said "I didnt get you anything"
she was smile'ing, and waved as I went, (mini almost died, when I drove off, its still got a cold)
I guess we see....

Anyhow.
all the best for christmas everyone

[Southy]

I Hope so, going away tomorrow to bury with family, for christmas.

Ohh your up my neck of the woods fella, let us know how it goes tomorrow and if you get a txt off her we might go celebrating

[blacktulip]

i think you are a brave man, others should look up to you. theres nothing worse than the "what if" when its too late. you did the right thing mate

the only thing i can think of going wrong is she might think its a joke. unless you made it really clear in your letter. when you get a min by yourselves ask her what she thought of it. maybe arrange a night out with some friends and ask her to pop along. that way it wont be like a date. keep us posted dude

[miRon]

good on ya,

time will tell........

[Southy]

I might take a leaf out of your book as there is a girl in the butty shop near work who i like but im too shy to ask her out, might write her a letter and hand it too her next time when im about too leave see what she says next time im in

[*Raz*]

I think its really cute

You wont know until you have tried.

My first 'proper' boyfriend asked me out with a letter that had the lyrics from one of my favorite coldplay songs in the letter that related to him asking me out. It was so cute and romantic.

I love romantic things.

Dont pester her about it, and DONT chase her, she will be put off. I have this guy texting me 24/7 and if I dont text back he sends it again, or sends another text saying im being moody or ignoring him, raaaaaaaaar its SO annoying!

You are very brave, now you have done it, try and forget about it for now, dont worry yourself over it.

Good luck

Edited by *Raz*, 24 December 2007 - 07:14 PM.

[Bungle]

. I have this guy texting me 24/7 and if I dont text back he sends it again, or sends another text saying im being moody or ignoring him, raaaaaaaaar its SO annoying!

we did warn you about jammy

[Jordie]

i think you did right. Id txt her once asking if she had a good xmas before you go back to work, then if there is any ill feeling etc you can get it out in the open rather then sat in an awkward silence at work.

Ive made many silly mistakes, im too shy to do anything bold and tell people how I feel, so many a times ive found out that the person i liked also liked me, but nothing came of it because i didnt make the move. No harm in trying i guess, its just hard to put in motion when it comes to the crunch.

[RetroRacer21]

Cheers guys and girls,
yea.

Going to forgot about what will happen now, and take it when it comes.
right now... Just finished watching 300 again,

going to finish wrapping the rest of my presents. (I leave things too late sometimes)

anyhow.
thanks everyone for the advice, and comments

Cezare