36 replies to this topic

[cooperdan]

its been 2 days since my partner said i dont love you anymore it something that hurts deeply...even tho its only been two years its a love which i thought was going well seemed good.. you say to them i love you but they say they dont love you back. i never realized i feel so down bout it and heart broken..feel quite lost at the moment..one day it will become a memory and not a pain.. now the only thing that is keeping me occupied and some sort of happiness is my mini and listening to the killers...

sorry for the sob story just thought id share better to let it out than to bottle it up inside....

[sazal]

Awww Hope it gets better soon

[fatboy-rdt]

feel quite lost at the moment..one day it will become a memory and not a pain..

it will, just give it time mate!

[Deathrow]

Just know you're not alone chap, there are people far and wide feeling just like you do. If that helps at all.

I'm feeling pretty rotten at the moment too for different reasons, just got to keep your chin up.

[Angelic_Fruitcake]

Oh no it's a horrible thing to happen. I hope the pain eases a little for you soon

[davej]

I feel for you mate. Like deathrow said you`re not alone, she obvioulsy wasnt the one for you. Time for you to get out there and enjoy yourself.

I`ve got my ex messaging me at the moment telling me about all the things wrong in our realtionship that ended a year ago, it still hurts but it gets easier.

[Minisniper]

I am sorry to hear of your sadness,


but on a lighter note my Mum always said "Never run after a man or woman they're abit like a bus, there'll be another one along soon"


Minisniper

[Deathrow]

I am sorry to hear of your sadness,


but on a lighter note my Mum always said "Never run after a man or woman they're abit like a bus, there'll be another one along soon"


Minisniper

That, I like!

[cooperdan]

but on a lighter note my Mum always said "Never run after a man or woman they're abit like a bus, there'll be another one along soon"

dont worry my dad said that aswell...thanks everyone im just trying to adjust...

[*Raz*]

awwww


sorry to hear that

[wolfys_mini]

why bother with love, even the one who is right for you will hurt you.everyone hurts you. live life alone. then only you can hurt yourself.

[kjbenja]

My wife and I spent 5 months chatting over the net.

I went to visit her and within one week we were living together.

We now rent a house in Surrey and have a great 9yr old boy.

Mirracles do happen.

Keep that chin up and be yourself and love will find you

[marksmini]

talking about it is good tho and what a great place to get everything off your chest. right here.

im wrong to say this but i found alot of drink helped me when i was in that place you are now. drinking isnt a good idea tho, im just saying what i done to help me (digging deeper here)

[BadgerBaiter]

I turned to drink after the only woman I truly loved dumped me and got married to someone else within six months.
I quit drinking after I realised I was saying stuff to her that would completely get her out of my life.
That was almost four years ago and I still love her as much today as I did then.
It sucks

[Jordie]

Been through it as well, it does become a memory and not a pain. I was with my partner for nearly 3 years, happily enough, in love. She fell pregnant and that caused a stir, but we worked through it. She had a miscarriage 6-8weeks later and she totally changed. For as much as i loved her, i couldn't cope with loosing the baby and a change in herself. After a couple of months, things still weren't right so i put a end to it, not realising how alone and empty i would feel for the following 12months. I did the right thing, even though it caused us both pain. We still talk now and then which is nice as we knew each other a long time.

Someone right will come along for you, Chin up mate.