You could cut it. I would suggest that rather than cutting a slot, with great risk of going into the crankshaft, that you grind a flat, angled to match the taper. You will not need to go right through, as the boss will stretch and release the flywheel once it gets fairly thin. The fact that the area where you are grinding will be very hot will help. If you are getting too close to the crankshaft, the thin layer of metal remaining will turn blue and it will be obvious that you are close. Unfortunately it is a lot more work, and I suggest that you try other things again first.
Thermal shock has already been suggested. Heat it as hot as you dare, i.e. without risking damage, and cool it rapidly. I know you have done that, but doing it maybe 10 or 20 times, or more, may work as it may creep a little bit each time. Tighten the puller up each time, and give the central bolt a good whack too, plus some good thumps on the back. You may have to keep at it for a long time, but such things always do go, eventually.
The main limitation on how much pulling force you can apply is the 3 bolts and their threaded holes in the flywheel. This situation needs desperate measures, and if you can get a thick metal plate and a suitably large bolt, you could make a puller with 3, or even 6, larger bolts, and drill and tap the flywheel accordingly. Try to get grade 12.9 bolts (allen capheads are always 10.9 or 12.9), and drill and tap as deep as possible. You may as well drill right through for maximum bolt engagement, if you are prepared to scrap the flywheel.
The ultimate in desperation would be to drill a ring of holes right round the flywheel, just outboard of the primary gear (no point in ruining that), then run larger drills through until the holes overlap and the outer part of the flywheel is free. That is a lot of work, but would give better access for grinding the remains and/or getting extra pulling power behind the boss.