Hi I'm at IMM so I don't have proper access to the forum (no fancy phone :-(
Lead you have is the best bet to be honest it the genuine Rover lead can have problems with.
If you have no communication under ignition power, there are several possibilities but most common is the wiring to the diagnostic plug, I would be checking this first as without being able to read the running data you will struggle.
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Yeah I did think it was strange that its works with engine turned off but as soon as I turn engine on it will lose communication, will work for a second or few then lose communication again everytime I try it.
Not being very good with electrics any ideas what I'm looking for? Or how to check? Furthest iv got is reaching behind diagnostic plug and locating the wires
Thanks