Some HiLo type height adjusters intentionally have a different shape for the part that contacts the cone to change the rising rate characteristic. I forget which brand it was that first made those claims, but they were very good. Whatever you have, compare your devices to standard trumpets and you will probably see the difference. If your trumpets have sufficient depth of engagement in the cones to still be safe, you could turn up some shims on a lathe with various profiles to do some experimentation.
As for coilovers, don't ever fit those without strengthening the shell. The damper mounts, front and rear, can not safely carry spring loads too.