I don't think people get confused about it at all, the first image in this thread IS an HDR (Any image with an increased high dynamic range is an HDR, there is no doubt about it... that is what HDR stands for.) and has correctly been named as one.
Going to have to disagree with you there, the image posted by Gibbo is an HDR, none of them can be closest if they are all one. If you meant the one posted by wooly123 is the more well executed HDR then I will agree with you. You can't say a bad HDR is not one... because it is.
The first image might have the basic understanding of how a HDR image works.
but I know its not a High Dynamic Range.
both the under exposure and over exposure need to be more.
to create a better contrast and balance between them.
then over working on the image after and adding a paint effect. clearly does not show what an HDR image can do.
wooly123's image is... why?
because of the High Dynamic Range that has been processed in the image.
it has a better Tone and contrast values between the set of 3 images that was used.
I'll find some examples later if you wish of true HDR images.
And I think people yes... still get confused over that an actual HDR image is.
just because you took 3 exposures all different, and put them together.
doesnt mean its a HDR image if you dont know how to put it together. (sorry if it sounds harsh)
I could explain all day, but again... I'm no expert.
but its a good start on the images. anyhow

and Gibbo...
your right about the photo.. being in a C**p location.

and you said yourself...
I overworked the photo because it was a C**p image and I liked the look it gave overworked more than the look it gave realistically
for a realistic HDR image to work... it cant be overworked on. (and added paint effects)
hope my post doesnt sound nasty

I'm just trying to explain that HDR is over rated alot.
can I ask what camera, lens, and program you used to create the image?