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#61 AVV IT

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 12:02 PM

Definitely good advice on the four door car though - trying to continually get a baby into a two door is a nightmare!


Actually I find it significantly easier, with a two door car & especially a mini I can tip the front seat forward and sit with one knee on the car floor and the other foot outside the car (sort of half in & half out of the car). I can then pick little 'un up from outside the car and quickly negotiate them around the B post and then sit them directly into the car seat in the rear. Doing their harness seat belts up is very easy because I am directly in front of them to do so.

In a four door car this all this has to be done from the side and involves me standing outside the car and leaning in to the car to lift the kids in and then do the seat belts up at an angle. I also have a long standing back injury and this sort of posture really isn't helpful, where as in the mini I can do everything kneeling down good posture and my back straight. The worst thing about the mini is the non retracting/inertia seatbelts in the rear, this makes using rear facing child seats (for babies under 9 months) difficult to use, I got round this by putting the rear facing seat in the front & my missus in the back for the first 9 months, but you could convert to the later retracting/inertia rear belts fairly easily instead.

Plus, if worried about safety then fit in a small roll cage?


Don't do this, it's a very bad idea!! Roll cages are intended for autosport use, where the occupants are wearing crash helmets & restrained with full harnesses, they are not intended for road use which is why fitting one to a road car often significantly increases your insurance premium. An exposed bare metal cage inside a car greatly increases the risk of serious head injury to the occupants in the event of a collision. In the case of young children where the cranial bones of the skull are not fully fused then this is potentially even more lethal.

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 12:43 PM

Actually I find it significantly easier, with a two door car & especially a mini I can tip the front seat forward and sit with one knee on the car floor and the other foot outside the car (sort of half in & half out of the car). I can then pick little 'un up from outside the car and quickly negotiate them around the B post and then sit them directly into the car seat in the rear. Doing their harness seat belts up is very easy because I am directly in front of them to do so.



I dont even bother doing that. My 3 yr old climbs through the gap between the front seats and I lift my one year old in to his rear facing seat the same way. it's easier than tipping the chair, especially when the head rest is fully extended.

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 12:54 PM

Actually I find it significantly easier, with a two door car & especially a mini I can tip the front seat forward and sit with one knee on the car floor and the other foot outside the car (sort of half in & half out of the car). I can then pick little 'un up from outside the car and quickly negotiate them around the B post and then sit them directly into the car seat in the rear. Doing their harness seat belts up is very easy because I am directly in front of them to do so.



I dont even bother doing that. My 3 yr old climbs through the gap between the front seats and I lift my one year old in to his rear facing seat the same way. it's easier than tipping the chair, especially when the head rest is fully extended.


I wouldn't ever let my three year old climb all over my half leather cream seats, especially not with his muddy wellies on!!! >_<

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 02:29 PM

yes i share those sentiments, but my minis not a show car by any means. if and when it is, she'll only be allowed in after wiping her feet >_<

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 03:21 PM

Buy an estate and make them go through the rear doors! >_<

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Posted 19 January 2011 - 03:26 PM

oooooooor, don't have a car at all?!

That's what my sis does. She has 3 (8, 6 & 4 yrs).

That's also what my lil bro does & he has one and a half (18 months & one due in July).

My sis goes everywhere by bus & train, my bro goes everywhere by pushbike & trailer.

Works for them!

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 10:47 AM

thank you and nar she is going to start driving yet lol

and iv been looking for about an hour for a mini estate and iv seen bout 4 lol there very rare :D


thats a good idea, mini estate or clubman estate would be miles better than stock mini for baby.


although still imo, with a baby life would be a whole lot easier in a 4/5door car,


i know that when me and my gf get round to having kids all toy's will be sold and i would 100% concentrate onb the baby,

i'm 26 though so have had a life thus far, unfortunately you being so young i can imagine (no offense here) but your not much more than a kid yourself and will have to grow up very quickly, which is one reason you so addamant about keeping the mini, which is slightly selfish.

another problem to think about with a mini is the costs of running one, there not 100% reliable especially in cold damp weather, they dont often go through mots 1st time (unless been recently restored or stored in a garage)

with a baby you'll need it to be reliable incase of any problems and running to and from hospital doctors etc

as your so young theres plenty of room later on in life to have some form of midlife crisis and get another mini when i would say is more financially viable, remember best things come to those who wait :thumbsup:

congratulations for the baby though :)

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:21 PM

i replied to your thread on looking for a clubby estate!

well im 18, my daughter was born in November last year. the day before i bought my clubman estate! I own a vauxhall corsa, but my renewal price for insurance is 3k which i am not prepared to pay. So i am selling the corsa in march and putting the money I saved into my mini which will not depreciate like the corsa and I will have much cheaper insurance year on year. I paid 3600 for mine "check out my fb link at bottom for pics" it is a great car. Just keep looking there are some deals out there!

if you do decide to get a moderner car you will get ripped off by insurance, and it will depreciate each year you keep it. If you do sell up get a clubby estate it will save you money!

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:27 PM

looks very nice mate and yh thats why i dont really want a new car to expensive to run and also because i love minis lol

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:30 PM

looks very nice mate and yh thats why i dont really want a new car to expensive to run and also because i love minis lol


I can tell you're still in the early ages of owning a mini..

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:32 PM

yep lol

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:35 PM

yep lol


If one of your concerns is the running costs then get rid of the mini. It will be less economical than a modern car. MOT is likely to cost more because being an old car it will no doubt have somethingh wrong with it. TAX will be a lot more. Not to mention the new parts you'll have to be buying for it every week. Insurance can be just as cheap on a modern carn if you shop around..

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:35 PM

if you will still have access to someone close by who would run the baby around in the case of an emergency then its not too bad. As I work away I don't live with my girlfriend during the week she is at home where I know she will be able to get a lift some where just in case. I know you have bigger responsibilities now but you still will want occasional times to do things for you! N if your mini is what you want to do then keep it!

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:37 PM

yeah and i aint going to sell my mini unless i can get hold of a solid and good mini estate lol . but 1st of i need to finish my mini lol

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Posted 20 January 2011 - 05:39 PM

n my TAX is the same for corsa and the mini! except my insurace on mini is 1100 rather than 3000, it only worked out for to swap really because i bought the corsa at a very reasonable price and wont loose very much over the two years ive owned it




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