What I have said, I mean. However that does not mean that i think any worse of those involved. Its a life experience, a major one at that.
I am really glad that everyone walked away and there were no other parties involved. Please realise that this was a major incident that could have been fatal not only to those involved but also innocent parties traveling the opposite way on a push bike, in a car or walking the dog for that matter. As of yet no one has pointed this out and im afraid that this topic gives the view that if you have a serious accident and every one gives hugs and kisses that its OK. Insurance policies dont mean its alright.
As for the garden that you all ended up in, they are most probibly used to it, just be thankfull that they didnt edge the garden with boulders from the local quarry, Ive seen that done and the resuts.
We are all have to take responsability for our own actions.
I can place my self in your situation. I know the mental pain rather than physical pain that I would be going through knowing that I had escaped a possible fatal incident and at the same time lost my pride and joy by an error of judgement that I made, hence why I feel your pain. However the reason I have no sympathy is that i can also see that this was avoidable.
There is no malace involved, i'm not a bad person and I'm far from the perfect driver.
Live and learn, its a wild world out there.
Chins up