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#106 minijo

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:49 PM

I met Chris through Minis. So go to as many mini shows, runs as you can and just make friends. Chris and i were friends for a long time and it just naturally moved on. :(

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:52 PM

bit of a waster then!
i get alot of "advice" about bein genuine and not being a user of women-the youngest and 3 sisters!!!
did anyone els work out how approiate tash's name is?!?!


....my name has been the bane of my life!
tash- rash flash gash smash crash trash bash etc etc
haggertay - slaggertay faggertay
could it rhyme with anything else rubbish! haha

#108 cooperdan

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:55 PM

I think when women feel you are going to dump them and go out with the other so to speak is

partially parnoia but also could be because you dont give them enough attention and love n affection

But then also jealousy because the girl from uni loves minis...so obvious connection there


yeah i totally see where you're coming from and it is so true, but then again, he took his girlfriend there, no hiding her away and giving off a single vibe,
i probably should have learnt my lesson but i trust people easily until they do something unworthy of the trust, if he didn't give her any reason to be untrusting then she should have chilled out!
not that my relaxed approach has ever done me any favours! haha, maybe i'll take a leaf out of her book!


Thats the trouble when being very easily trustable...

some use that to an advantage to use women/ men..to keep them under there thumb..

You'll trust what they say and never doubt them, until the day it bites back

#109 Deathrow

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:57 PM

not that my relaxed approach has ever done me any favours! haha, maybe i'll take a leaf out of her book!

Please don't!

It seems the world has enough girls like that, I can't seem to find a girl that isn't like that :(.

As for love and attention, I gave all my time to her, Elliot would probably be finished now if I hadn't been spending every free moment I had over the summer with her :). In fact, the day she dumped me, I took her way up north to see a Mini she'd seen on eBay because she really wanted one. Cost me about £25 in petrol :/.

Looking back makes me feel such a mug, it makes me reluctant to ever trust anyone like that again. Which isn't a good thing because to fall for anyone I believe there needs to be unconditional trust, else how can you ever be happy?

Edited by Deathrow, 16 December 2009 - 07:58 PM.


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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:58 PM

I think when women feel you are going to dump them and go out with the other so to speak is

partially parnoia but also could be because you dont give them enough attention and love n affection

But then also jealousy because the girl from uni loves minis...so obvious connection there


yeah i totally see where you're coming from and it is so true, but then again, he took his girlfriend there, no hiding her away and giving off a single vibe,
i probably should have learnt my lesson but i trust people easily until they do something unworthy of the trust, if he didn't give her any reason to be untrusting then she should have chilled out!
not that my relaxed approach has ever done me any favours! haha, maybe i'll take a leaf out of her book!


Thats the trouble when being very easily trustable...

some use that to an advantage to use women/ men..to keep them under there thumb..

You'll trust what they say and never doubt them, until the day it bites back


you have to kiss a lot of toads! one day it'll pay off, either that or i'll be forced to join a convent and marry myself to the big G in the skies!

#111 danie garry

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 07:59 PM

bit of a waster then!
i get alot of "advice" about bein genuine and not being a user of women-the youngest and 3 sisters!!!
did anyone els work out how approiate tash's name is?!?!


....my name has been the bane of my life!
tash- rash flash gash smash crash trash bash etc etc
haggertay - slaggertay faggertay
could it rhyme with anything else rubbish! haha


no, there was 1 of the characters in "the love guru" called mariska hagartay!!!!!

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:02 PM

You sound like a good man!

And she has lost out big if thats what you did for her...

you sound very respectable.. :)

I cant blame you for feeling bit reluctant for finding someone else...i suggest you take your time to get know someone is there anyone at work or uni you really lke at least then you can meet and talk at work at uni on a friend basis.... :(

#113 TashHaggertay

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:03 PM

Looking back makes me feel such a mug, it makes me reluctant to ever trust anyone like that again. Which isn't a good thing because to fall for anyone I believe there needs to be unconditional trust, else how can you ever be happy?
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yeah but anyone can feel like a mug in hindsight, there's no use dwelling though, you can't change it, can only learn from it, you're looking back on it now without all your emotions messing with your mind, it's so much easier to say 'i never should have let them get away with that, i should have ended it then' than 'i'm not letting you get away with that, it's over!'
dont feel like a mug, because who's gonna feel like the mug when she wakes up and realises there's no one there to drive madam to view her dream car etc etc

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:04 PM

bit of a waster then!
i get alot of "advice" about bein genuine and not being a user of women-the youngest and 3 sisters!!!
did anyone els work out how approiate tash's name is?!?!


....my name has been the bane of my life!
tash- rash flash gash smash crash trash bash etc etc
haggertay - slaggertay faggertay
could it rhyme with anything else rubbish! haha


no, there was 1 of the characters in "the love guru" called mariska hagartay!!!!!



hahahhahhah! yeah doesn't he just say that at the end of his advice?

i'm gonna do that from now on...

mariska hagartay guys, peace and love.

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:08 PM

bit of a waster then!
i get alot of "advice" about bein genuine and not being a user of women-the youngest and 3 sisters!!!
did anyone els work out how approiate tash's name is?!?!


....my name has been the bane of my life!
tash- rash flash gash smash crash trash bash etc etc
haggertay - slaggertay faggertay
could it rhyme with anything else rubbish! haha


no, there was 1 of the characters in "the love guru" called mariska hagartay!!!!!



hahahhahhah! yeah doesn't he just say that at the end of his advice?

i'm gonna do that from now on...

mariska hagartay guys, peace and love.



my bad, thought it was a character!! havnt seen it an a while

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:13 PM

Never run after a bus or a woman. There will always be another one.

And

If you run behind the bus you save your bus fare :(

#117 luiji89

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:14 PM

omg tash, your nuts you really are!

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:15 PM

omg tash, your nuts you really are!


tip of the ice berg toby my friend..tip of the ice berg! haha

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:37 PM

I recommend a night out somewhere decent and large amounts of tequila... usually works for me but i can never remember how it all happened...

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Posted 16 December 2009 - 08:39 PM

I recommend a night out somewhere decent and large amounts of tequila... usually works for me but i can never remember how it all happened...



Tut Tut jonesy.... :(




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