182 replies to this topic

[Deathrow]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

Noooo, I don't believe there is any woman hating in here! I'm definitly not on board with that. In fact, 90% of the time nowadays, I get on better with girl mates than I do guy mates.

However, I do agree that a womans logic is complete insanity in comparison to a guys logic.

For instance:

I met a girl at Uni who was in to Minis, we met, because of the Minis, without them we wouldn't have spoke! Anyway, for some reason, my ex was always taking the *yellow human water*, like whenever I said me and my friend we're talking Minis my ex would kick in and say "Oh, Mini Time, eeeee!" in a really sarcastic tone. This is coming from a girl, who herself, wants a Mini :/.

Roll on a few months and I really want to go to my first Mini show and Uttoxeter was coming up and it wasn't as far as most shows so I asked my ex if she'd like to come with me, she got dead excited, booked time off work and I was really excited to be going with her too. So the show comes round and we get there and it so happens that my friend from Uni is there as well because she only lives like 20 mins away.

My logic: I'm excited and happy because I've brought my girlfriend on a lovely day out, it's not rained and we had a good time. Priceless.
Ex's logic: He's trying to rub this girl in my face because he's going to dump me and go out with her.

I think that's a perfect example haha.

[Deathrow]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

i dont hate women!!!!

good! i'm just fighting our corner! we're not all expensive and untrustworthy! (:

Can you tell me how I can tell the good girls from the bad girls (cheats, emotional blackmailers, etc.).

Actually, if I can make a radar for such a task, I'd be a millionaire!

Edited by Deathrow, 16 December 2009 - 07:12 PM.

[cooperdan]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

Noooo, I don't believe there is any woman hating in here! I'm definitly not on board with that. In fact, 90% of the time nowadays, I get on better with girl mates than I do guy mates.

However, I do agree that a womans logic is complete insanity in comparison to a guys logic.

For instance:

I met a girl at Uni who was in to Minis, we met, because of the Minis, without them we wouldn't have spoke! Anyway, for some reason, my ex was always taking the *yellow human water*, like whenever I said me and my friend we're talking Minis my ex would kick in and say "Oh, Mini Time, eeeee!" in a really sarcastic tone. This is coming from a girl, who herself, wants a Mini :/.

Roll on a few months and I really want to go to my first Mini show and Uttoxeter was coming up and it wasn't as far as most shows so I asked my ex if she'd like to come with me, she got dead excited, booked time off work and I was really excited to be going with her too. So the show comes round and we get there and it so happens that my friend from Uni is there as well because she only lives like 20 mins away.

My logic: I'm excited and happy because I've brought my girlfriend on a lovely day out, it's not rained and we had a good time. Priceless.
Ex's logic: He's trying to rub this girl in my face because he's going to dump me and go out with her.

I think that's a perfect example haha.

I understand that completely, ive had that similar problem which has caused me much grief and heartache......

Cause most of my friends are women due to the fact i get on better with girls than boys, im sure my partner is not happy with that...actually i kind of know that.....it irratates me incredably

[cooperdan]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

i dont hate women!!!!

good! i'm just fighting our corner! we're not all expensive and untrustworthy! (:

Can you tell me how I can tell the good girls from the bad girls (cheats, emotional blackmailers, etc.).

Actually, if I can make a radar for such a task, I'd be a millionaire!

I think this is where you make friends with girls dont go straight to asking them out...get to know them first...

But thats not always the case soooo...i suppose it is down to character, there perception when talking to them....

from that you can gather quite alot of information....

even as much as a smile tells you alot about a person

[Deathrow]

Oh, I forgot to mention another detail.

The friend from Uni was at the show with her boyfriend, lol. Just to add more lacking in the logic area.

[yorkshirechris]

you talk alot share things then later on if it feels like you are becoming closer .....it goes from there really....

hate the whole chat up thing lol...cant stand it

I pretty much agree with the above ^^

If you go pull some randomer down the pub and take her back to your place, and then you get to know each other from there, then you will probably always think what if some other random guy had made a move on her that night and she took a liking to him - the attraction would've purely been based on cosmetics and maybe humour, not anything more than skin deep. Whereas if you get to know each other first then decide to be an item, at least you can say you've known each other properly before diving in there (no pun intended, honest!!!)

[davidv]

Its no fun male or female on let downs I always say people change over time makes me feal better i am an old classic at 46 seen a bit to share

[TashHaggertay]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

i dont hate women!!!!

good! i'm just fighting our corner! we're not all expensive and untrustworthy! (:

Can you tell me how I can tell the good girls from the bad girls (cheats, emotional blackmailers, etc.).

Actually, if I can make a radar for such a task, I'd be a millionaire!

I think this is where you make friends with girls dont go straight to asking them out...get to know them first...

But thats not always the case soooo...i suppose it is down to character, there perception when talking to them....

from that you can gather quite alot of information....

even as much as a smile tells you alot about a person

you should just be able to tell! if there's a connection there, if someone talks to you out of the blue then you don't have to worry about them not being interested because they could easily have just said nothing,
try and find a mutual connection asap, like for example 'i'm worried my mini won't start in this weather!' 'you drive a mini?! oh i love minis! *flutters eyelashes*' aha or something along those lines, because then you can make the conversation flow better. If she's replying and holding eye contact, she's paying attention, but stop talking anyway and ask if you're boring her, i don't know why but i just think that's quite sweet when guys do that!
if she makes contact with you as often as you do to her then that's a good start too because the chase is coming from both sides. Don't get too serious and OTT too soon, i once met a guy 5 times and he introduced me to his entire family!! i'm talking auntie sally uncle nev ..the works!
Most girls aren't gold diggers, but it is nice when a guy offers to pay, it's just old skool and gentlemanly, but if you're worried she is after your wallet then don't go somewhere expensive go somewhere creative and fun, spontaneity is always a good thing too!
Smile a lot without being too grinny and just have fun and relax (:

x

[TashHaggertay]

and guys! what is all this women hating about?!
you lot are just as bad! probably worse!!!! aha

Noooo, I don't believe there is any woman hating in here! I'm definitly not on board with that. In fact, 90% of the time nowadays, I get on better with girl mates than I do guy mates.

However, I do agree that a womans logic is complete insanity in comparison to a guys logic.

For instance:

I met a girl at Uni who was in to Minis, we met, because of the Minis, without them we wouldn't have spoke! Anyway, for some reason, my ex was always taking the *yellow human water*, like whenever I said me and my friend we're talking Minis my ex would kick in and say "Oh, Mini Time, eeeee!" in a really sarcastic tone. This is coming from a girl, who herself, wants a Mini :/.

Roll on a few months and I really want to go to my first Mini show and Uttoxeter was coming up and it wasn't as far as most shows so I asked my ex if she'd like to come with me, she got dead excited, booked time off work and I was really excited to be going with her too. So the show comes round and we get there and it so happens that my friend from Uni is there as well because she only lives like 20 mins away.

My logic: I'm excited and happy because I've brought my girlfriend on a lovely day out, it's not rained and we had a good time. Priceless.
Ex's logic: He's trying to rub this girl in my face because he's going to dump me and go out with her.

I think that's a perfect example haha.

dude no way! haha she doesn't sound like a typical girl, i think she's got a classic case of paranoiaaaa

i don't think it's a case of male and female logic, i think it's more a case of mental stable and mentally unhinged!

[Deathrow]

Well she's definitly mentally unhinged .

I placed my feelings in the wrong place, obviously. Something like parking your Morris Marina under a piano on the Top Gear set and then wondering why when it falls on your car.

[cooperdan]

I think when women feel you are going to dump them and go out with the other so to speak is

partially parnoia but also could be because you dont give them enough attention and love n affection

But then also jealousy because the girl from uni loves minis...so obvious connection there

[TashHaggertay]

no worries man it happens to everyone.

i spent two years with the same waste of time,
prime example - his birthday, i spend weeks getting his present together- a vintage original ben sherman shirt (he loves skinheads), our song on 12inch vinyl, a 1950s flash camera (photography student), a jack daniels t shirt, and a scrapbook....as i was wrapping it, he had his tongue down another girls throat, infront of my friends, didn't tell me, found out a few days later from my friend.
we argues about this girl, i was nice to her, wasn't her fault after all, managed to make it all up, i left wetherspoons one way, he left the other, turns out i had to do a full circle because my friend was in a fight and as i turned the corner i see him holding hands walking into a club with her, and when i ask 'what he's doing?' in a quiet tone (no shoutng or anything) he does an over dramatic sigh and tells me not to make a scene. Nice chap. Really.

x

[cooperdan]

MEN!!


>

[TashHaggertay]

I think when women feel you are going to dump them and go out with the other so to speak is

partially parnoia but also could be because you dont give them enough attention and love n affection

But then also jealousy because the girl from uni loves minis...so obvious connection there

yeah i totally see where you're coming from and it is so true, but then again, he took his girlfriend there, no hiding her away and giving off a single vibe,
i probably should have learnt my lesson but i trust people easily until they do something unworthy of the trust, if he didn't give her any reason to be untrusting then she should have chilled out!
not that my relaxed approach has ever done me any favours! haha, maybe i'll take a leaf out of her book!

[danie garry]

bit of a waster then!
i get alot of "advice" about bein genuine and not being a user of women-the youngest and 3 sisters!!!
did anyone els work out how approiate tash's name is to this thread?!?!

Edited by danie garry, 16 December 2009 - 07:51 PM.